We joke all the time that we are raising two kids and a grandchild. Of course, Jessie is not our grandchild. It just feels that way. Joelan is 13 and Julia is a month from turning 11. We were in our prime when they were toddlers. We had endless energy and I had read every parenting book available so I was and expert on discipline, potty training, and character development (ha,ha). Our older children are in what is called the “golden years of parenting”. We survived the terrible twos, and threes for that matter, and both kids had learned to read. We had diapers, potty training and spankings behind us and were enjoying sleeping in on Saturdays.
Well God blessed us with our third child when I was considered “advanced maternal age” (37). I was not emotionally prepared for this pregnancy and it took all 40 weeks of it to get pumped up for her arrival. Jesslyn came into the world and had to adapt quickly to life with two older, baseball/softball loving siblings. She was 6 days old when she attended her first softball game. We all four instantly fell in love with this incredibly spirited, beautiful baby.
So people ask us all of the time what it is like having a baby again. It is very different. I had Joelan and Julia on schedules and would never plan anything to do that would interrupt their naps. We have to wake Jessie up regularly to take Julia to piano or Joelan to a baseball game. She lives at the ball park during the Spring.
So Jessie is approaching 2 years old and I am gearing up. I have been through 2 twice. I know what it entails. I hope I have the energy to make it and do it well. Moms don’t get enough credit for the endless hours it takes to discipline and nurture a toddler. I am looking to my younger and more structured friends to support me during this time. I used to be like you. But I forgot how to do it. Better pull out those parenting books again!
Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it, Proverbs 22:6